The First Six Seconds: What guys notice immediately

While reading Cosmo Online, I stumbled across a study about what guys notice 6 seconds after meeting women. I can say that these didn’t surprise me one bit.. Here is the list according to Cosmo.  

1. Your Smile
2. Your Hair
3. Your Cleavage
4. Your Makeup
5. Your Skin
6. Your Bag

Read the complete article and their explanations here Here

All of these are expected…but your bag…I didn’t expect that one at all… Now here are the 6 things I notice about the opposite sex when I first meet them.

1. Smile

 

Who doesn’t love a beautiful smile, accompanied by some juicy lips and dimples….swooon!  Or a smirk… I ♥ it!!!  I’m a smile/teeth type person so that is one of the first things I notice anyway…but with smile like THIS, I’ll notice EVERYTIME! Now that Mr. Songz…beautiful smile, dimples, lips…. mmmhhmmm

2. Eyes

Not to sound cliche’ but EYES are the window to the soul. Looking me dead in the eye will show confidence and let me know if you’re lying…unless you’re a good liar then I’m doomed from the start anyway. Lol, but really. No matter what color your eyes are, staring me directly in the eye will let me know..you mean BUSINESS!! Tupac’s eyes…boy oh boy…that man was deep!!

R.I.P. Tupac Amaru Shakur

 

3. Swag…. *shudder*

As much as this word has been abused, your swag and how you carry yourself say ALOT! You may be shy..and thats your personality but being unsure about yourself …ehhh, will cause us to lose interest before you even say hello. Not saying you have to be cocky and a jerk face/a-hole, but DANG….don’t let me KNOW that you aren’t confident or intimidated. Not only is it a turn off but it makes you look silly… You betta know you’re the ish…cuz I sure do!! AND you don’t have to own Fli Pelican…

 (although you should check them out at www.flipelican.com because they’re Fli and Fam…sup Nino ) 

to have swag…be confident, even in a plain white v neck, or the FLIest outfit ever invented…know you’re swagged out…its Sexy !

4. Hair

O.M.G. It makes me really sad when cuties fail to upkeep their heads. Low cuts and dreds need to be maintained…POINT BLANK PERIOD. Don’t let anyone tell you ANYTHING differently. If you have 3 dreds in your entire head…then you should do one of these two things….

1. Pour you a big cup of bleach and take it to the head (Kid Fury Style)

2. Cut them (and by them I mean all 3 of the dreds) off.

Now with that being said, if you have a low-cut then please keep a line up or something. I understand that you may have hair that grows like a werewolf but if you have the WHOLE werewolf thing going on… o_o…I just don’ t know what to say.

&& If you have facial hair…keep it up!!!!

5.  The Initial Approach

My mother named me Chelsea Elizabeth Kendall Bailey, not

baby

ayyy

lil mama

pink shirt

or my favorite, Lil mama with the tracks (true story this guy tried to talk to me in Daytona Beach, FL and he said lil mama with the tracks. Nevermind the fact that I did have weave, but there is NO WAY he knew that…just assuming , lol)

A nice and polite Hey, how are you doing or simply making eye contact and coming over to speak will work MUCH more effectively

6. Scent

Nothing like a man with a delightful scent… . I don’t care if you smell like Curve or Lever 2000…if you’re smelling good then ((HELLO)) lol. Especially a yummy smelling cologne like Polo Black or Kenneth Cole… .

Hey Boy Heyyyy.

Lol. But yea, I can’t speak for everyone…but in my opinion, this is what I first notice about the opposite sex.

So ladies, Do you agree or disagree?

Let me know!

=} -cb.

…and I’m out!